the politics of marriage

did you know that you can love someone even being married? strange but true. it was the theme of a lot of great writers in the past, this "forbidden" love. i call this forbidden because society and church doesn't approve: society not for socio-economic reasons (except for the higher class) and the church not for the so-called moral standards whilst treathening with purgatory or hell, both to suppress the civilians or believers. that the upper class and the rich man, the priests and the bishops have a double moral, seems of no importance.

the real moral standard is the attitude of both parents to each other and their children and the obligation to bring up their children to balanced and nice human beings with empathy and compassion for others as well to educated citizens to fulfil their human tasks in the society. of course it is true that almost any divorce of the parents probably will harm the personality and the integrity of children especially when they are in a more vulnarable period. the keyword is love from both parents married or not, and the ability to give their children basic trust.

anyway, what is the moral behind divorcing to love some other body ? there is no written law that forbids you to love anybody, married or not. besides i feel it is not the task of the society or church to manipulate personal feelings for their own advantage (the only reason why they act like this). maybe u think different about this topic. society believes in the buck, their own idol. the rich keeps the others poor. believe in any god isn't bad i think, but i feel that no other person has the right to tell you what to believe or not. church today (and in the past) looks more like a commerce as it was in the time of the pharazees in the temple. now i will burn a candle.

this are my words.